Module 1: Boundaries

Clear boundaries are vital within these relationships. Odd as it may sound, the point of creating boundaries is freedom and an understanding of the expectations of the relationship.

Having unclear boundaries can mean lines get blurred between parent/friend/counsellor/peer and it can create confusion in how you relate and respond to one another.

• Role model good boundaries: how to act, what to share, what to say, how to respond, how close to be to someone
• Be clear about your role (I am here to…, I will…)
• Provide support within the boundary of your role
• Be consistent and stable
• Discuss how you will communicate for example: telephone, text message or through email
• Discuss confidentiality. Explain in what circumstances you may need to talk to the SCP coordinator about something

• Forget your role and position of power
• Break your own rules
• Meet up with them outside of your official volunteer role
• Give away personal details for example: your address
• Give or accept money or other items

Remember good boundaries help you/them to feel safe and manage their/your own expectations.